You did not find it. You build it. A little each week, and a lot over time.

Think about the most effective person you know. The person who is not only good at her job but also seems happy in her work. She is busy. Hardworking. Engaged. Successful. Other people want work with her. She always seems to get the best assignment. Things always seem to work out for her.

Do you have someone in mind?

You look at her and think. You lucky devil. How did you find that job? How did you find a job that fits you so well?

It is a trick question, because when you look at her closely, you discover that she did not find this job. She build it. She took a generic job description --- check the online posting boards for a million examples --- and then week by week, that strengthened her away from those that did not. She pushed and she pushed, her stack of blue cards growing, until best of her job become most of her job.

She slowly but deliberately rewrote her job description under her boss's nose.

So should you.

--- Marcus Buckingham, The Truth about you ---

读着读着……我想到别人。当我读到这里，它问着的问题，让我站在别人眼中想到自己。我真的有那么厉害吗？我hold过很多活动，校内或校外，甚至在前几个星期被选中到美国
参加学生团体的全球活动，有少许赞助公司的津贴。

我也不知道为什么……我问为什么，但没有人愿意告诉我为什么……只听说，答案有那么重要吗？重点是我不是在这里了吗？有一天，我会要找出答案的。因为它对我如此重要，是一个认可。

我也有努力付出……因为我知道我都在尽量做好我的事情。

You will know the answer. You did not find it. You build it. A little each week, and a lot over time.